He Said, She Said with Tom and Valerie

We sent these singles out to grab a drink and a bite to eat at GG Brewers before a showing of Paranormal State at The Keswick Theatre in Glenside, PA.  Were they spooked by each other or did they hit it off? Find out…

VALERIE

AGE: 25
JOB: Marketing coordinator
HOBBIES: Traveling, wine, good food, dogs, terrible movies

TOM

AGE: 34
JOB: Government work
HOBBIES: Anything outside, playing with my dog, cold beers, cooking in my crock pot

The Restaurant:

GG’s Brewers
282 Keswick Ave.
Glenside
www.ggbrewers.com

FIRST IMPRESSIONS:

TOM: Valerie was well dressed but not over the top. She wasn’t shy and didn’t seem uncomfortable meeting me for the first time. She displayed confidence from the start and actually I think she started the conversation. She made a great first impression.
VALERIE: Tom was wearing an outdoors jacket with a plaid shirt underneath, jeans and sneakers. His shaggy hair and dark-rimmed glasses made him look a bit artsy. Upon first sight, I knew he was not quite my type. He looked a little nervous, but I figured that was only natural. I am sure I looked nervous as well. Although he would not be the first person I would identify as a match for me, I felt that overall he looked like a genuine, nice guy.

THE DATE:

TOM: We were supposed to meet at GG’s for a few drinks and appetizers and then head over to see a live taping of the “Paranormal State” at the Keswick Theatre. It didn’t quite work out that way, but I’ll explain later.
VALERIE: The planned activity was appetizers and drinks at GG’s Brewery, followed by a taping of “Paranormal State” at the Keswick Theatre in Glenside. I was intrigued by the show. Although I would not necessarily have bought the tickets myself, I was psyched because it was so out of the ordinary. According to my roommate, I have apparently seen the show before, although I have no recollection of this.

THE CONVERSATION:

TOM: I think the best word to describe the conversation was “easy.” I don’t remember an awkward pause or a time when I regretted saying something (I usually do). We talked about everything from work to the various pets we’ve had/have. There was an effortless flow to the conversation, no matter how random the subject. Valerie was a joy to talk to and it was a pleasure getting to know her.

VALERIE:  I did not think the conversation was awkward. We had a pause here and there, but nothing so pronounced that it made me feel weird. Tom and I had a few things in common; he grew up in Pittsburgh and I went to school there, he loves dogs and so do I. These things made the conversation flow easily.

THE RESTAURANT:

TOM: GG’s is small but not suffocating. I had never been there before, but it was a very relaxed atmosphere.

VALERIE: The restaurant was small and quaint and kind of cozy. It was very causal and laid-back. I had never been there before.

THE SERVICE:

TOM: The staff was very helpful and nice. They took good care of us.

VALERIE: The service was very good. The waitresses were very attentive and checked in on us very frequently.

DRINKS:

TOM: I ordered their stout. It was a little sweet, but pretty good.

VALERIE: I had wine — white of course. It was not the best wine I have ever tried, nor the worst.  It was a bit sweet, a bit bitter. That is how I like it.

THE FOOD:

TOM: We only ordered nachos because we were supposed to go to the show. The nachos were good and came with the basics — cheese, sour cream, peppers, olives and salsa.

VALERIE: We ordered the nachos. As Tom said, “It’s the best bang for your buck.” I was starving, so it did the trick.

‘PARANORMAL STATE’ SHOW:

TOM: We were having so much fun we decided not to go to the show. It was a plus knowing we didn’t have to stick to a schedule and could relax.

CHEMISTRY?

TOM: Think we got along really well.

VALERIE: I really liked talking to Tom. We were able to share a good deal and I think we got to know each other pretty well for a first date. However, as far as a romantic chemistry, I don’t think we quite matched.

DID YOU EXCHANGE NUMBERS?

TOM: Yes

VALERIE: Tom gave me his number and let me know that I could call or text him if I wanted to. I did text him the next day to see how he was doing.

WAS IT A MATCH?

TOM: You never know!

VALERIE: Tom is great and I have no doubt that he will find an equally as great girl. However, I do not think I am that girl. I think I am a bit more of a free spirit; I don’t quite know what I want just yet and I think he will be able to find someone better suited to what he wants.

WAS THERE A KISS?

TOM: Let’s keep it classy

VALERIE: There was no kiss – just a hug goodbye.

WILL THERE BE A SECOND DATE?

TOM: I had a really good time, so we’ll see.

VALERIE: Tom and I could hang out again, but as for a “date” date, I don’t see that in the cards.

HOW DID YOU LEAVE IT?

TOM: On a good note!

VALERIE: Tom walked me to my car like a gentleman and we ended the night there.